Should I Sext Him
Should I sext him is a question that many women ask a lot. We as women know that we can almost always get a man to answer our texts if we put a little sexual suggestion into it. While this is all fine and well, I do think sexting has it’s place. Sexting is okay if you want the following.
1. A romp in the hay
2. A friends with benifits that probably won’t make it to relationship
3. A hook up
In other words, while sexual banter is fun, if you are wanting more from a man it may not be the way to go. Almost all guys will try to get you to sext. Some even want nude pictures or pics of your breast or you in a bikini. Resist this temptation for instant attention from the man. This is a sure way to get instant gratification and attention, but it won’t last. Men often do this subconsciously to test you. Sure they want to see or sext, but in reality, when you give in, often they put you into the category of non relationship material. Down the road they will question it mark my words. They will think, hmmm, if she gives in so easily with me, surely she will with someone else as well. In other words they don’t feel so special.
Men will sext with you all day if you allow it, no doubt. Don’t flatter yourself though. Sexting is a guys way of filtering his selections. He moves you into sex material and out of relationship material if you give in too soon to his sexual banter also know as sexting. Resist the temptation and his respect will soar for you. If it doesn’t, well he was looking for a fling anyway and you have just filtered him…..out the door.
Sexting is great inside of an established relationship. It adds fun and anticipation and can ignite the spark over and over again, but outside of a relationship it can be a disaster.
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