When Should I Text or Call Him First
Usually the time we struggle most with the question of should I text him or should I call him is in the beginning of dating or when we have just met a guy we find attractive and interesting. A guy we would like to get to know. We want to reach out and push things along. This time in the beginning is when you should be texting and calling him the least.
When texting guys, it’s okay to answer them if they text first of course. It’s not okay to initiate. If you send the first text every time, how do you know if he is really really interested? If you think that because he always replies so he must be interested, you could be very wrong. Guys that allow the women to pursue them that they aren’t pursuing are often setting you up to be the girl for now, not the girl he falls in love with. It’s easy, why turn down easy?
I know women who will text a guy and if she gets no reply, she texts him again. This is not good, don’t do this. If he isn’t answering, there is a reason. If you are one of these women that then will think, “what if he didn’t get it”, chill out. Have you ever went back into your sent messages to make sure the text message actually went? If by chance he didn’t get it, if he is interested, he will text you soon enough, relax. If he doesn’t, he isn’t that into you. You texting him again will only make you appear desperate, so no don’t text him again. It’s an attraction buzz killer!
I also know women who will think up reasons to text or call him. They have some sort of information that they feel will be of interest to him, so they use that as an excuse to make contact. The only time it’s okay to text him first with such information is if is also doing the same type of sharing with you. Don’t over share and don’t be the first to share. Let him come to you.
As a rule when you should text him is only if he texts you first. There really is no other reason to text him unless he is your boyfriend already and your relationship is established. Texting a guy everyday like so many women do will kill his attraction, not grow it. It equals to a guy a girl who is pushing for a relationship. Pushing makes guys run.
Texting a guy the right thing at the right time can drive his attraction through the roof. You can convey mystery, allure, flirting and bring him closer with a change in your texting techniques alone.
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